What’s the diff? I see them both used a lot but nobody seems to know the diff. Here’s the conundrum:
A Hotwife is supposed to be a wife who has sex with other men. The difference between her and a cheating wife is that the husband knows about the Hotwife and I guess gets off on it.
A Cuckold is a man with a “cheating wife”. But these guys want their wives to see other men and the wives seem to agree to it, so how can that be “cheating”? I mean if you tell your wife it’s okay to fuck a lover how can she possibly be seen as a cheating? A "Hot" wife, sure, but hardly a cheating wife.
So the only real cuckolds are the ones who don’t know their wives are cheating, or who find out about it later. Cuckolds say that their wives are cheating, even if they know about it, because technically maybe their wives are violating the vows of matrimony.
I'll concede that this argument is probably the best one. Even though you know your wife is planning to do it, you helped her arrange it, you helped her pick out the dress and shoes, you reserved their hotel room, you kissed her goodbye, you waited by the phone all night knowing what she is doing and you sported a raging hardon all night thinking about it, then by all means, declare her a cheating wife. If it feeds the fantasy and works for everyone, what’s the diff?
But what is the diff in the lifestyle? Some say they are into Hotwifing. Others say they are into Cuckold.
Some Hotwives and their husbands arrange everything together. The husband and the other guy know everything about each other, and nothing is hidden. But some Hotwives do date others and their lovers don’t know about their husband. Some guys never even know that the woman is married.
With Cuckold couples the wife does seem to have more control, and maybe takes more charge of who she sees and when, with the husband taking the role of passive observer. The fact that the wife can be the one more in charge is probably the biggest difference I see in the Cuckold couples. Sometimes the wife will date a lover who doesn’t know that the husband is aware of his wife’s activities. But some Cuckold couples bring the wife’s lover into the home, where they flaunt their sexual acts in front of the Cuckold husband. So again there is no clear difference between Cuckold couples and Hotwife couples.
I find it interesting that there are so few clear definitions between the two, yet some couples are adamant that they practice Hotwifing but not Cuckold, and there are Cuckold couples that insist that they are not into Hotwifing.
Ah, humans. Such quirky creatures!
